its written in the stars....

not too long ago i had a converstation with BBF #1, the subject of what we were talkin isnt really important in this statement, but the idea of destiny popped up. im prolly butchering the hell outta this, but she says the italians believe in "destino" or something like that...basically, everything is written for you. i usually like to think that i like to control my own life. but that good ol' saying "everything happens for a reason" comes into play.
so destiny, as many people, including myself, believe that we run and have our own destiny in our hands...but whats not to say..."because i did this and that and this earlier in my life, i came to this conclusion"
im starting more and more to believe in this destiny thing, just let life play out and sort the cards out later. i look into my past and often think, how would my life been if this incident didnt happen or if i never met this person. but if u think about it, it wouldnt have brought you to the point that i am at now. or who knows i may have taken longer to get to where im at now. in general, im content with the people i know now and with what has happened to me. every bad experience i take as a lesson, every good experience i take as a blessing. everyone, good or bad, has played a unique role into molding me into the person i am right now, at this very moment. how i think, how i act, how i love, how i care...
heres some real life examples...
if me n sheena never kept gettin ditched and all of a sudden we get stuck with each other for one night, i dont think we would have ever been the best of friends. or if i never started ROE...i would have never met my other best friend Abi. or if i never started ROE, would i be as successful as i am now...
destiny, as simple as it is, can hold the keys to someones life. we may not know what will happen next, but trust, life wants you to thrive...