2 for 1!!!

im rollin out with two topics yes too topics...and to borrow a small quote from my friend Abi's blog (girlsarethenewboys.blogspot.com)
"I TALK SHIT, I DONT HATE!"

im quite angry at the youth/young adults right now. although im not that old, but i believe ive entered the group of elder statemens after turning 26. there are all prolly reasonable explainations for their actions, but being an older, rational adult...i dont see what they see.
i have a few friends that are younger than me alot of them complain that their BF/GF has wronged them in some way. "he/she doesnt treat me right" "he/she is cheating on me" blah blah the list goes on!
i did however realize when i was in high school or early 20s why some of my female friends dated older guys...CUZ THEY WERENT AS IMMATURE AS THE DUDES THEIR OWN AGE! and i think i've reached that age of enlightenment. that doesnt mean imma start dating 18-19-20 year olds (although, if the looks work..lol) i still do prefer ladies my age or older, (side note: i realized that i dont just like married women or women with kids and for shits n giggles, i think its my longing for someone who has shown a great deal of maturity [having kids or a family, gives u a great deal of responsibility and the fact that u are pretty much forced out of your childhood/teens and into real life just shows a great deal of maturity...very sexy to me]in that sense i like my lady to be that "ms independent" payin for her own shit, not askin me LV/Juicy bags, workin me overtime for her. i want a woman with drive, knows what she wants...)
but back to my point, the reason why i brought this up, was because i was reading my friends away msg and she was complaining bout "why cant guys, just be real"
i laugh at this, while i am also frustrated. first off i am @ no way attracted to this girl, just a really good friend, like a sister to me. but i am disappointed that she feels that way. the guys i know, MY AGE! are the realest niggaz i kno. i know cuz i personally picked these peoples to hang out with. well not just my guy friends, ALL my friends. i dont surround myself with fakeness and immaturity. we may act immature but we arent immature. to my friend who wrote that, i think you need to look a little more beyond looks and first glance personalities. get to know these "guys" you know. i guaranteed they havent been thru trials and tribulations, more often than not, these guys havent seen or been thru the things mature people have. im no telling you who to hang around, but be more wise when picking your company. see then you wonder why they cheat on you...or treat you a certain way.

ahh enuff on that...part 2
i dont condone idiocracy. but one person i know, spews retardedness. im simply puttin this out there, YOU ARE AND IDIOT & NO MATTER WHAT PEOPLE SAY OR DEFEND YOU WITH, I'LL ALWAYS THINK YOU ARE ONE!! if you think im just being mean, its because you havent been thru the shit i have been thru with this person. have you ever woken up to a million meaningless questions, because they think they are conversing with you...then when u try to answer it, they dont even respond. have your found yourself having to re-repeat (you noticed i didnt just say repeat...but RE-REPEAT) certain directions or instructions...or possibly gettin responses from things like 5-a few weeks later (slow the definition of 'retard'). so i hope ive given enuff examples of this persons stoopidity! (i spelled it like that cuz they cant even spell slang correctly either) also what you dont see is that this person is highly vain and self-centered. there was a recent incident, where they were upset about something when they initially started the situation (cant get too in detail about it). i honestly dont feel sorry for this person, because, i did warn them of the reprocussions of their decsions, but still didnt heed my warnings.
ugh...to quote one of my favorite rappers "you wonder why they call you bitch" (which he said "dumb" bitch) whatever!