MELODRAMATICS!

I prolly learned the most from an enemy of mines. Its a weird coincidence that some my most life changing lessons come from an ex-friend, who in turn was fakin the funk the whole time.
"Pity is a tool of the weak." In my mind humility is the great tool of the strong, without crossing the line of confidence and arrogance, I'll try my best to argue my point. Thru my life I've met two distinct people, humble and cocky people. I know some of you all think that I'm a cocky person, cuz I glorify it and seemed to act like that. But if know me, you know I'm not that person. What pisses me off are the types that use pity for their glory. People who constantly remind us, "oh I did it on my own, NO ONE helped me" if u did it on ur own, u don't need to advertise, people will know. Another example, airing out ur dirty laundry, I too, am guilty of this. But in my honest opinion, I'm not lookin for solutions or answers or even a "hey, you'll be alright" I'm vocally expressing my thought, to see then materialize. Something I learned in my psyc classes. I don't need the people tellin me it will be good, I know it wil because, I'm still here and never gave up. If I want to talk to you I will talk to you. If I spill my guts, it would prolly be in this blog, but I won't mention names, certain situations or ne of that. People who air that shit out, is lookin for the attention they get, they love it, thrive off it, makes them feel like they belong, the saying it true, "misry luvs company, if they can bring down to where they are, they won't feel alone.
Sometimes we need that alone time, sometimes we NEED to solve things on our own time, by ourselves. Remember what may work for one, might not work for another. Being pittiful, you just look melodramatic, you want the attention, but then everyone starts to look at you as some weak ass person. i dunno. i get like that, but i confide in people who will give me more that a pat on tha back, or a "hey keep your head up"...
lets hug it out bitch!